Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Being twenty something.. !!

Yeah... I am back again.. ! Had founf the article on the internet a couple of years back. When i read it for the first time, i could relate to it almost entirely. Thought would put it up here.. atleast to keep the poor D's Diary get going.. ! :)

Take a deep breathe and ponder for a while.. !!

Being Twenty-Something ..

They call it the "Quarter-Life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that maybe, those friends that you thought were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean, or insincere but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job...and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure.

You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling onto the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.

One night stands and random hookups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts lto look pathetic You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, and the future and making a life for yourself...and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it.. Just that some of us are past this experience.. some of us may be going through it.. And the rest will go through it.

Cheers.. !!
Till Next time..



Hiral said...

Finally u r here again with a Wonderful message.... ! the last line is really true.. :)...

state of mind? said...

hey so truuuuuueeeeee
and as the article says all of us face it!!!

Dhruvin Dashani said...

@ State of mind

Thanks !!

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Psychedelic said...

Dude.. Yr post made me laugh and think at the same breath.. Nice post.. Like u mentioned.. Could really relate to it ... :) :)

Dhruvin Dashani said...

Thanks.. ! :)

Himja Dashani said...

I cant belive i had not come to your blog since this long time..
This is fab..!!